Being Jewish: Starting a Chavurah…
When my wife and I first moved to Napa in the 90’s we quickly discovered that the Valley was inhabited with Jews of all sorts. There was not really an interest on our part to get involved with Congregation Beth Sholom (CBS) at the time even thought Rabbi White was someone I grew up with since he was the uncle of my best friend in High School. Rabbi White even grew up in the same youth movement as I did (Young Judaea) and much of his service was familiar to me in style and conten,t yet because of our age and our focus, (career and each other) we were not out searching for spirituality. Overtime marriage and children became the impetus for our searching out spirituality - Rabbi White married us and our first born (a boy) had his Pidyon Haben at CBS.
Still there was a part of me that was not keen to be a part of an institutional Judaism. I had basically grown up in the “Conservative System” and felt like it had stripped much of what it could have offered up in the form of spirituality. My wife and I were looking for something else - something that was created and run by the participants. There were other like minded Jews in Napa, those that felt like CBS was not the place for them or that they needed some supplement to what CBS had to offer. The model we used was simple - we met once a month at each other’s homes for Friday Night services and a potlock and whomever was the hosting the service lead it (with everyone chipping in as best we could). (more…)






Louis Gottfried is the Web Mensch for Grapejews.com. He, his wife and three kids have lived in the Napa Valley for the last 15 years. If you need to contact him send him an email at